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Ask an AI Assistant What It Remembers About You — and Get It Deleted

Assistants keep memory, personalization profiles, and chat history, and they often describe them in different places. One written request gets you the inventory and the deletion path in the same reply.

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The free tool below runs entirely in this browser — no account, nothing stored or transmitted. Redact anything you would not want kept before you type it.

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Why a written request works better than a settings tour

Memory features are spread across settings: a memory list, a personalization profile, a history toggle, and a training consent that may live elsewhere entirely. In-product deletion often removes one of those, which is why the request names all of them.

The request also produces a record. If a company later changes how it handles this data, your request and their reply are the documentation of what was true when you asked.

The protocol

  1. Look for the assistant's memory or personalization settings first and export whatever you can see. This tells you what exists before you ask.
  2. Send the request in writing through the app's support or privacy channel, naming each artifact: memory entries, personalization profile, chat history, and any model-training use of your content.
  3. Ask for the retention period and for confirmation once deletion is complete.
  4. Set a follow-up date and keep the confirmation. If nothing arrives, escalate to the company's privacy contact and note the dates.
  5. Decide separately whether to keep using memory features. Deleting the current profile does not stop it from being rebuilt unless you turn the feature off.

What the tool does

Build a written request covering everything an assistant stores about you, with the deletion steps and a follow-up date. It runs in this browser; nothing is sent or stored.

Limit first: This is a request-drafting aid, not legal advice. Response obligations and deadlines depend on where you live and on the company's own policy.

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One human next step

If the company does not respond to a deletion request within a reasonable period, a consumer privacy agency where you live can take the complaint — several US states have dedicated privacy enforcement. Keep your request and their reply together.

Research log and safety checks

AI-assist path: not used for a verdict. This is a request builder: the artifact that matters is the letter the reader sends and the dated record of the reply, which no model can produce for them. §6.10: not a frontier-pace topic.

§0.5 protection result: category is data-privacy-exposure; crisis-adjacent: no; fear/urgency/scarcity toolkit used: no. The protective function is free and the paid feature is convenience only.

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Pairs with the same protection bar: a free complete reading, an optional convenience unlock, and no fear-framing.