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FAMILY / AGE-BAND AGREEMENT

A Household AI-Use Agreement, Written by Age Band.

One set of rules does not fit a nine-year-old and a sixteen-year-old. This builds a short, age-banded agreement the whole household can actually keep — and revise.

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The free tool below runs entirely in this browser — no account, nothing stored or transmitted. Redact anything you would not want kept before you type it.

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Why age bands beat one rule

A rule written for a teen is wrong for a younger child, and a rule written for a younger child gets ignored by a teen. Age bands let the same household hold different, appropriate boundaries — and let each member see that the rules are about fit, not about mistrust.

The agreement works because it is a family decision with a review date, not a decree. Rules the household helped write get kept; rules handed down get worked around.

The protocol

  1. Set a line for each age band: what AI is for, what is off-limits, and who to ask.
  2. Add the privacy boundary: what never gets pasted — names, school, address, photos of others.
  3. Add the human check-in: when something confusing or upsetting happens, who do we tell.
  4. Put a review date on it, and sign it together.

What the tool does

Build a short, age-banded household AI-use agreement with a privacy boundary and a review date. It runs in this browser; nothing is sent or stored.

Limit first: This is a family-agreement aid, not parenting or legal advice. It structures the household's own decisions; it does not decide them for you.

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One human next step

Print it, sign it together, and put the review date on the calendar. Revisit it when a band ages up or an app changes.

Research log and safety checks

AI-assist path: not applicable — the agreement is a family's own decision in their own words; a model draft would substitute generic rules for the household's actual values. §6.10: not a frontier-pace topic.

§0.5 protection result: category is family-teen-safety; crisis-adjacent: no; fear/urgency/scarcity toolkit used: no. The protective function is free and the paid feature is convenience only.

Related dispatches

Pairs with the same protection bar: a free complete reading, an optional convenience unlock, and no fear-framing.