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FAMILY / TEEN SAFETY

Collaborative Guidelines for Teen Social AI and Companion App Usage

A supportive, non-surveillance framework for families to discuss AI chatbots integrated into social media apps.

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The free tool below runs entirely in this browser — no account, nothing stored or transmitted. Redact anything you would not want kept before you type it.

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Why open family discussion works better than covert tracking

AI chatbots embedded in messaging apps feel like private chats; open conversations build critical thinking and digital boundary awareness.

Co-creating rules about privacy and time management encourages teens to seek guidance when encountering strange responses.

The protocol

  1. Discuss how AI chatbots differ from human friends in social media apps.
  2. Agree never to share personal addresses, phone numbers, or private family photos with AI bots.
  3. Establish screen-free study hours and nighttime charging locations outside bedrooms.
  4. Reassure teens that they can come to parents with any concerning or weird chatbot interactions without fear of losing device privileges.

What the tool does

Build a collaborative social AI agreement for parents and teens. Runs in browser.

Limit first: This is a family discussion tool. It does not monitor social media activity.

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One human next step

Explore Common Sense Media guides for independent age ratings on popular social AI tools.

Research log and safety checks

AI-assist path: agreement generator. §6.10: not a frontier-pace topic.

§0.5 protection result: category is family-teen-safety; crisis-adjacent: no; fear/urgency/scarcity toolkit used: no. The protective function is free and the paid feature is convenience only.

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Pairs with the same protection bar: a free complete reading, an optional convenience unlock, and no fear-framing.